So What Does Feelgoodfactor Mean To You?

So what does feelgoodfactor mean to you?

Google “feelgoodfactor” and see what it means to others.

To Independent Television in the UK, it means a successful reality TV show that was designed to help the fight against obesity.

Wikipedia on the other hand, will list it as a music album by a group called “The Wades”.

To most others it just conjures up some sort of reference to something that makes you feel good, which of course it should, as it is just three little words linked together that actually speak volumes, but to me it means so much more.

I have an unfinished book by that very title. It may never be finished we’ll see. I lost several chapters of it when my computer hard drive crashed in 2000, and I never got round to re-writing it.

It was a self help book, based on the use of NLP methods. NLP if you don’t know is the abbreviation on Neuro Linguistic Programming. A method used by many life coaches and personal development trainers such as Tony Robbins or Paul McKenna and many, many more.

The basis of it is that our brains are programmed, much like a computer. That which we believe has been programmed into our brains and carried perhaps for life, as, rightly or wrongly, exactly what we accept as fact. I believe it so it therefore true.

Many beliefs, such as fear of spiders, snakes, the dark etc. may have been passed, unwittingly, down from our parents or even suggestions from our parents i.e. their beliefs. As we grow as children, our minds take in much of the knowledge that we are to carry for the rest of our lives. For instance a child that is constantly told that they are useless at certain things, may carry that belief way into adulthood and can affect ones self esteem in a lasting and damaging way.

If we accept that indeed our brains have been programmed by life as we know it, then it is fair to say that it is possible to reprogram those beliefs that may affect us. NLP is a method of re-programming the brain in certain areas. You may have seen TV programs that show people that have a terrible fear of snakes, be able to pick up a snake and let it wind around their body, showing no fear whatsoever and this same method can be used on changing a multitude of life long beliefs and NLP has been highly successful in improving the lives of countless thousands and I was first turned on to its possibilities after walking on hot coals.

The idea of my book was to offer a solution to anyone who wanted to feel happy and positive, absolutely anytime they wanted or needed to. Had a bad day at work, bang, you were happy. An argument with your spouse, bang, you were happy. When practiced correctly, you can turn happy days into weeks, then months, then years. Each day becoming a joy to awake and tackle all that life had to offer, be it good or bad and for me it worked, just by following a basic set of rules, but using those rules steadfastly.

The method was to use a small collection of words and phrases. Each word or phrase carried a much deeper meaning which the reader was meant to absorb and master the meaning of each. A notional box was to be kept in the brain where everything was stored. Words and meaning. When needed one would merely visit the box, extract a word, remember the meaning, and consider it until it reminded you about your mission to be happy.

This has an amazing effect on your life. You can become a better person to be around. You can focus on your objectives more efficiently. You spend far less time being troubled dwelling on negatives and broaden your horizons in general, making your potential to achieve better things.

The sad news is that I never finished the book, though to some extent the method has not been tried on any large scale because I have only imparted its theory to a handful of people, though I will say that many of those people have remembered many of the phrases and benefited from them.

In 1997 when I had mastered my Feelgoodfactor theory, I predicted that one day it would make me a lot of money. In 2000 when I lost my transcript I buried the book idea but continued its theory in my own life, remaining happy and positive but developing my ideas no further through commitment of work. In 2008 I started to develop my own internet business and by 2009, the theory and practices related, began to make my prediction come true.

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